Let LOVE be without dissimulation and hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil cling to what is good. Romans 12:9.
In other words let it be REAL.
Since God is Love anything that pretends to be and is not, is false.
satan is the Father of Lies so when Love is faked to get over, take advantage.get a hand up or hand out, use or tear down someone....it's satanic, demonic, a con and downright abomination.
When we say I LOVE YOU...ARE WE SAYING I GOD YOU?! We should be if it's true as HE IS THE WAY, the truth and the life.
Could this game be why so many suffer? Retribution, reaping for the tender souls that have been deliberately torn in relationships and from pulpits?
This year say it with chocolate, flowers, a ring....ONLY IF YOU MEAN IT. GOD IS LOOKING AND LISTENING.